It’s the piece of paper that makes you official and legally married in your state and for the government. If it’s filled out properly.
Our clients are often rushed through the process when they go to the courthouse, depends how busy the clerk is.
to clear up any misnomers, here’s some help for Indiana and Kentucky:
- Both of you must attend, in person. With valid driver’s license or ID. They want to see your current address.
- Bring your CASH to pay for your marriage license. Indiana: $18 for residents, $60 for non-residents. Kentucky: $35.50
- Indiana: you can get your marriage license up to 60 days in advance. Kentucky: you can get your marriage license 30 days in advance. If you want to start filling out your license in advance for Indiana, here is a link: http://www.in.gov/judiciary/2605.htm
- You must be 18 years of age or older. If you have been previously married, you must bring your divorce papers. There are no waits or holds.
- You purchase your marriage license in the state that you are getting married in.
- Now this is where some people get confused. The clerks will give you two documents. One will be in an envelope and look like an official legal document. That’s because it is. Don’t fill it out. Have your officiant fill it out, they know what they are doing. You have to sign this and your witnesses. This document MUST be mailed back to your city clerk to file. This is when you become legit married under the eyes of your state.
There will be a second document, it’s pretty … on thick paper. That’s your marriage license that you keep as a “keepsake”. Please don’t frame it. That’s weird.
Be prepared in advance to make copies of your documents if you need your marriage license to prove your marriage for a honeymoon resort discount. Sometimes the pretty license can serve as this, but I really recommend copying the legal document.
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